Sunday, January 18, 2009

Now and Then: M03

Hey students. I am sure that as you walk the paths through your life, you encounter things, big or small, that somehow affect your life. Share the experience of your life that somehow changed who you were into who you are now. Tell us and let's learn from each others' experiences.

27 comments:

misz benida said...

hye..
actually i don't have any experience that change me in other characteristic..because i just love being myself..do we need to change althougth we happy with our life??but sometime times,experience will matured us naturally..we learn what happen from yesterday,we prepare for the tomorrow...
there was one tragedy that relly makes my mind changed..i'm sorry because cannot share here..it was so private to me..
but,we cannot deny that people can change..and sometime we don't realize that we were changed..
thats all from my thinking..

-nurulasmida

Anonymous said...

Experience teaches us to grow to be more mature and to be wise in making decisions.As for myself,I learn a lot when I make friends.There are always friends to hang out together,catch the newest movies,watch football together,and such.But it is really hard to find friends that will really listen to all your problems in life and help you to solve the problems(sobs!).

~hariz~
ME08036

iamredranger said...
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aZiZuL HaFiZ said...

hmm.,
i dont know what kind of experience i want to share here because the way i change is not depends from my experience. what i means here it not means that we will change only when we have experience it. For me i'll change depends on time. for me this is really important because when the time have come, we need to change. for example when we know that we are lazy and we have really hard test for final, we should realize it from the begining and we have to cahange our self from the first semester. i think thats all from me.

ichawanie said...

hi..
i am not sure about the experience that we were talking about now..but then..i do believe people can change like adjla said..the same goes to me then..i realized that i become more matured.So,it's crucial for me to think properly instead of bewildered about something.whem i'm in the middle of problems the only one that lend me her shoulders was my great buddy who called miss!
she inspires me until where i became today.i'm standing here because of her.the way i talked and acted,she just knew where it from..one is obtained,denied to gained.I realized having a difficult life and crying at time are not all that unpleasant..and i think no matter how scary and mistery life maybe what need to be done should be done...did you think everything was taken in by your life?I can't explain more about that because it's too private and confidential to talk about.Nobody perfect in this world..i knew every people have their own problems.For now,just remember not to runaways but escaped to the upwards..try to think it properly..so,this should be enough for now..

wanie
ME08079

iamredranger said...

in a real life,i think people can change,everyone can change and i can change.i hope so..
because from my experinced,i realised that i need to change a little bit of me..i'm not talking about my character,attitude or whatever.i'm talking in term of my studies.eventhough i do really love what i'm doing right now,its not too late for me to do some revolusion of myself to become a better person.i thought its better late than never right??hahah.there are still have bad habits that i need to break.hurmm,
sometimes its really hard to convert the bad things to the good one..but to achive my goals,i need to sacrifice for my own future.yeah..
huhu~ :P

hUsNuL_hAt!mAh said...

nothing can change us before we change ourselves..just like in Al-Quran.but for me,to become new person take long time and it's depend on individual.we must sincere to make changing in our life because when we do something because of another person the effect is not permanently and easy we come back to the origin.it's not easy to become kind person but it's easy to become other hand..
i'm admit,many things in myself have to change.but give me time to do it..
happy always and smile always

~husnul~
~me08023~

Ben jr said...
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Ben jr said...

before i shared my opinion and experience,i like to say that not all the thing i experience or encounter in my life can be tell to others.because to me,this is my secret that involve someone or my family that only me deserved to know.alright then,for me i believe the experience i had with my family is the one that changed me to who i am now.i think growing up in my family makes me matured fast and independent.i learns many things from them including mistakes that i avoid to repeat it to myself.here,i can say that most of me is like a result from them and here i am now just one step closer to success.other than that,i think the experience i had with that person is what thought me about my weakness and which i try to overcame now.that`s all.

watiey said...

Assalamualaikum and good morning..

Hmmm…what actually change myself?
Truly I will said that what I had gone through already make me become more matured to continued my life..I had learn more about friendship and sometimes it makes me feel too cautious to built a friendship. I also learn more from my past mistakes and I will try to recover it by doing something better. But now I feel a little bit relieve because I have friends that can help me to stand from my failure. I also want to thanks to all the people surrounding me especially my family and my friends because never stop give me support until I can be what I am right now..Confidence?I think I become more confidence right now.. Thanks a lot…..


me08024

~nEeYsA~ said...

Assalamualaikum..
Something that affect my life?Maybe environment surround me that can effect my life.There is lot of places that i had been through my life,but it does not mean i am a person that is easy to b influenced by things.If we are in different places,we will meet a lot types of people,different way of life, so it makes us be more matured in handling such different way of life that we had to face to.Maybe at first it will be hard, but then it will be better for us.We should try to communicate with others so that we will not be alone and know nothing on what is going on surround us.Actually it depends on people how do they want to changed themselves,either in a positive way or vice versa.It just their mind set that they have to manage.All experiences that we had been through can make us become more matured in facing the world in front us.So,set up your mind!

-neeysa(me08028)-

fj bundle said...

hi...
My life is just like that.My characteristic also just like that.I love to being myself.But sometimes i hate with my characteristic.Along my journey of my life,i have learn many thing from the experiences starting from the child until now.As we know, experience will be maturing us.I also take other people's experience as an inspiration to make my life better and greater.But the most important is we have to keep up our relationship with God,parent and friends.That all from me...

IDHAM CR7 said...

hello!!
i think people can change into whatever they wants.its depend from ourselves.but sometime people can change because of someone..maybe friends or anything else.so there are so much experience they have even the good or tragedies.then it turn people to be good or trauma from the past.i think i have feel both of them.whatever it is i hope it make me more matured and kind person..
we cannot expect the unexpected..
huhu..

Shoujiroh said...

huhu...
Im really dont have lots of experience,but some kind of things that really mean to me,I take its as my experience that till now make me change as a good and dedicated person.One of things that I think is related to me is when I make a mistake that my mom really angry(sorry can't said it).A week I did not talk to my mom.At the same times my school make tazkirah speech about mother,its really touching to me,and make me crying.After that I go home and ask for apologies to my mom,my mom always forgive me.Im really regret what I have done,once again I ask for her apologies in Eid festival.Once again I crying for the last time.Untill now that I always remember that incident and that take it as my moral value...lastly i ask for all people please dont let your mom cry..you will regret it.

Adzlan said...

Assalamualaikum..
First of all, I agree with Hariz that Experience teaches us to grow to be more mature and to be wise in making decisions. Beside that people around us also can affect as like our parent and friend. I can conclude that everything in our life can affect our life, it don’t matter if the small thing all big thing. For example, video game can affect us to addict that game and will make we forget to study. However, I like what I have been now and I have learn a lot of experience in way to be matured. Beside that we can also learn from other experience to make we matured.

izul said...

assalamualikum...we have to learn from experience right.actually,nobody in this world no make mistake.my bad experience teaches me to be more alert and more mature.don't give up if you make a mistake.it is give me notice more be careful in the future.

-shahril- said...

I think each of a student at a high school have a dream to enter the university when they are graduated ...so am I..
but a dreams to continue my study in over sea university to futher after SPM was buried when I get a bad result for me in the exam..
I'm so lazy at that year..what is in my mind just like to enjoy with my friends.... but look the sequence after that..I am very dissapointed with my privious time... after a brain storming...hehe
I make a decision to continue my study to matriculation college..
So,at that time I,m focus my study 80 percent..with all support from my family,teachers and also my friends I get my victory in 2008.....
huh thank to God...

I succed to enter an university which is where i am now...

So in period time 2008-2012..I have to continue my effort to get the best especially for my family because I didn't want to disapointed them again....Thanks to everyone...

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-wahape- said...

hi....
For me,we get learn experience in our daily life work, the people's we get contact with and with our surrounding enviroment .By all this thing, it's let us to be more matured person besides make us think positive when making decisions. Learn from our mistakes is one great thing we have to follow,to make us become more responsible person.

~WAHAPE~
ME08041

madihahzubir said...

Actually there are a lot of experiences that changes my life until now.Every level that i had achieved i had failed at least once.From school until now..but failure is important for me.If there is no failure in my life i will not realize what i am doing.I learn from mistakes and that's how i am what i am right now.

pija said...

Assalamualaikum to all...

Meaningful of life is from experiences that we have.We learn from the experiences.Actually, I had more experiences in stdying which teach me not to give up and I fealt that I can be strong to face the problem that I’ll have.No matter what,we need the experiences to achive our mission in life.Everyone had it and how pain it was, try to face it strongly.That’s me now… :)

AkMa said...

assalamualaikum....
now and then???i have a lot of experience.some of that teach me a lot how to become a good person in our life..as for myself,i learn not to become a give up person when i get a bad result..if we easily to give up,we cannot make our result become better..that's me right now.from secondary school until now..when i get a bad result..i will find out how it can be like that..so i will try harder to improve it..but,not all the experience can teach us how to become a good person..it is not easy for ourselves to change our attitude..from bad to good..what important when we want to change ourselves is we must sincere to become a good person..without sincere,it is mean nothing when we change ourselves because it can make we back from old attitude..that's all from me..

sayE said...

salam..
now and then..as we know every people will change and its depend on that person..before this im a shy and non confident person..the thing happen when im in form five..i fight with my sis just because to buy kfc..and thre are alot of thing like that happen to me..huhu

pUtEri said...

hye there...
actualy i have experience that change my characteristic.when i am 16 years old,i felt that i big enough to do everythings.so i have demand unessary things such as handphone.but my parents didnt let me have my own handphone.after i got my spm resut which is not so good but luckly i were accepted for matriculation programme.then i realize that my parents know what are the best for me..i totally change my attitude.

unie_89 said...

hi...
hurmm...acctually there is one thing that i still remember in my mind which is i'm very upset because i can't do piloting after matriculation session.
i wish to join pilot academy which it is in private sector at Langkawi.
even it is private sector,but i still can manage to make loan with MARA.
but both my mother and father ask me to continue study at university.
they explain the benefit studying in university.
then i realize what is the important point that my parent told me at that moment.they said i have to graduate first before become a pilot.this is because if i'm unlucky pilot whereby i got involved in any accident and as a result i become a handicap person.i totally can't be a pilot anymore.here it is the advantage if i graduate first,i still can work as engineer.that is the great news for me.
therefore i tend to finish my study in degree first,letter on i will be doing piloting.
that is all.
bye...... =)

Azrie said...

Assalamualaikum
i want to share my experience...
Before i stand here i met more problem of my life.during i was child, i don’t understand what the meaning of succes??what is life ?what’s my ambition?? Thats i know play and play and play...
But when i go to secondary school i stat thinking of my future.Because one day my school was held motivation camp. In this program, i got more information about what i will do as a student. And i promised in my mind to study hard and want to be a good son.
So,start this day i promise to improve myself to study harder.and start thinking what i want to be in future.although before this i use to failed but i must learn from the mistake and be motivated.
now i already be part of university student.and now,for me i feel my life is better although don’t have a good job. thanked god.

amin said...

assalamualaikum...

now and then...hmm,actually there's lots of things happened in my life that changed me to the who I am now.Experience teaches me to grow to be more mature and i learn a lot from my friends.we must enjoy in our life....