Sunday, January 18, 2009

Now and Then: S01

Hey students. I am sure that as you walk the paths through your life, you encounter things, big or small, that somehow affect your life. Share the experience of your life that somehow changed who you were into who you are now. Tell us and let's learn from each others' experiences.

29 comments:

TheSilent said...

Through years I always feel that something's missing in my life.I don't know what is it until the day that I feel so lonely being me.Every people who are close to me seems so far away.Everything around me seems far apart.

Actually,almost 3 or 4 years I'm being so cold-hearted,self-centered,hot tempered,not listen to others and so silent.I'm almost a bad side of me.Hiding all my good side far away from myself.Talking to others in the rough way.I don't know why but that's the previous me.People start to not talking to me.That's the hard time I feel in the past.

At last I notice that I lack of self confidence and smiles.Now,as I learn from the past I try to put a smiles and have more confidence in myself.Then I realize that present me have a really happy,cool and relaxing time than before.Also,all my friends become more close to me and have a happy face when spending time with me and I'm not feeling tense anymore.I feel no regret changed who I am in the past.I feel more relieve.

Now I admit that smiles put my tense,worry and wrinkles away.huhuhu.

"Do not grieve over the past,do not worry about the future for it has yet to come,as long as it called today...live it as it was your last day"

Nur Syamiera Nabila bt Masri
SA08018

sakura said...

assalamualaikum,...

erm,...yes,i think everyone have experience that we can learnt something form past,...before i came here(UMP),i never far from my parent,...it is the first time too i study out of my town(kedah),...it's was dificult for me to live far from my parent,...

Alhamdulillah,i'm not shock with the university situation,...before this,my parent was know all my activities and untill now,...i always call my parent although my father work at kuala lumpur n my mother work at seberang jaya(pulau pinang),...

Actually before this,i'm hot tempered,not to be patience,not listen to other opinion,n very talkative,...but after i form one untill now,I try my best to change all my bad attitude,...n since i sick,i learnt more thing that i don't know before this,...it's very worth like gold and not all people can get this experience,... before this,it's very hard for me to except,but not now,...

I just want to share,...if we always think positive,insya-Allah,...we can settle our work
and face obstacles easily,...
walallah hu 'alam,...
assalamualaikum
(NUR 'ATIKAH BINTI ABDULLAH-SA08066)

kodok said...

well...this time i was no three...hehehe...i can not rememmber what the things that changed me,but i always remmeber who changed me...the one and only special girlfriend that i have...before i knew her,i was shy boy...can not accept other girls or women in my life accept my family...only concenrtrated in studying...no time to looking other special relationships or something like that...after knew her when lost in kuala lipis...hehehe...i think that she is the right person for me...then,she always told me to speak towards girls andlead me to be a man...ask me to stop smoking,and changed my personality from nerd person to great man...but after 5 years being her special boyfriend,we broke up with no reason...i was very sad until i forget the things that she done to me...i start smoking back and become cold-hearted again...can not accept other girls or women to replace her...my resaults also down...and...argh..why this all happened to me???what my fault???didn't i done a bad things???can anyone tell me what i should do???please help me to settle this problems...i beg to you...so end the true story...
Mohd Zulhelmy bin Abd. Jalil
SA08048....

Anonymous said...

salam..

i wish i have a better life than now..because for me..being the same person all time sometimes doesn't change anything..

before i enter the UMP..i was study in Johore Matriculation College..since that i learn how to stand on my feet...trying to make a friends..even a different courses..

from the secondary school,then enter the matriculation and now at university..i wish to study at university since i was in primary..

i want to a scientist because i love science..

i use to be a playful girl..not so serious about studying,like to enjoy all the time,but time and surrounding have change me to be a better person..

i hope,ten year from now..my future is brightest than ever..

thanks to all..

SHAFIZAH
~SA08034~

Yin Boon said...

There are few things let me change in my life and i call this as my turning point...
before i am studying form 6,my friends almost is the girl,and i never feel pressure.After i studied form 6,i know a lot of friends,and some of them become as my best friends.I have try a lot of things in my form 6 life.I have to be a secretary of the clubs and society,and i also start to know that how is the real life in this world.
After i graduate of my form 6,i have to work to be a clerk in the wall's ais-cream company.Before i work there,i thought earning money is not a difficult things.After i worked,i know that,earning money is a hard things.
Before i enter UMP,i am a childish person.I am a simple thinking person.I also think that life is always should be happy.After i study in UMP,i know that,happy is far from me.I also know that i have to learn to be a responsible and independent girl.I can depent to my parents and friends anymore.Everythings that i face i know that i should be solve with myself.
The last things i learn after i study in UMP is "never feel regret,never feel i loose,and never feel sad even i am fail."

SA08038,NG YIN BOON

atique said...

Ok?refering this statement i believe all of u have differents experience.
Also me?now, i want to share my experience...
Before i stand here i met more problem of my life.during i was child, i don’t understand what the meaning of succes??what is life ?what’s my ambition?? Thats i know play and play and play...
But when i go to secondary school i stat thinking of my future.Because one day my school was held motivation camp. In this program, i got more information about what i will do as a student. And i promised in my mind to study hard and want to be a good daughter.what i want to say during the session,many student was crying.me too...hehehe.
So,start this day i promise to improve myself to study harder.and start thinking what i want to be in future.although before this i use to failed but i must learn from the mistake and be motivated.
now i already be part of university student.and now,for me i feel my life is better although don’t have a good job. thanked god.

nor atikah bt mat yusoff
sa08047

Mohd Yamato said...
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Mohd Yamato said...

Assalamu'alaikum.

About my experience.

In the past, i'am a very quiet person. Not mixed with people, not talked with them but they not hated me except certain persons that hate me being like that. I don't know why.

There came a moment that someone told me why. He said, even me quiet and not mix with others, but i never give even a problem to them. That's why they happy with my existence. When come a problem that need an advise, they happy to see me.

But why a bit of them really hated me being like that? He said, it is because peoples happy and like you more than them.

I am a person that cannot being a hated guy even by a person. So, started from that incident, i always trying to be a flexible person. Can mix with a variety kind of person. But it is not easy to do than say. Until now, my old habit still stick with me. Forgive me my friend if sometime i acted weirdly.(market language)

MOHD ALIAS BIN AHMAD.
SA08012.

PaNci said...

GOH TOK MUN SA08054
Before I coming UMP , I’m a young girl that always depend on another . For example in home , all the housework such as cleaning , washing , and ironing was done by my mum without any complaint . In fact I can do these all kind of housework by myself . The beginning of UMP life was definitely hard for me because it was the first time I’m far away from home , sometimes I really feels homesick . Having few months in UMP , I getting started learn independent . Everyday after my class I hand wash my clothes and cleaning my room . For me this already becomes a routine . Now even I’m back to home for my holiday , I also hand wash my clothes without helping from my mum anymore .

jesSY GUrl said...

When I was a kid, I am not very good in my studies. I always get tense up when my parents and my family members ask me to study. Almost all the time I will be scolded when they see my results. But one day, I had a dream to be a successful person in my life. The only way to achieve that is by studying hard. I realize that my parents especially my daddy really hope that all his children will have a bright future. Now, all that I have to do is study hard to achieve my dreams and to fulfill my daddy's hope. For me, fulfilling my parents hope is one of the precious dreams in my life. I realize that parents always hope for the best for their kids. There is no any harm if our parents ask her to study hard. I hope I can be a successful person in my life so that I could be able to take care of my parents one day. ' I CAN DO IT'.

JESSINTA SANDANASAMY (SA08057)

Vidhyaa said...

There has been many things that I have encountered in my past life of 21 years but no matter what I have gone through before in life, I believe it all happened for the very reason of who I have became now.

Initially, I used to be someone introvert. I would spend most of my time playing indoor games or just resting at home during my leisure time but as i grew older I realised that there are many things in the outside world that I should discover. The change of thought in me changed the person in me. I became more sociable with people and I was more enthusiastic learning new knowledge while trying out something new. I became a more confident person in things I do.

I believe that many of us have low self esteem and low self confidence. Here, I would only want to voice out my thought that this life is yours and only you may have rights on it. So overcome your fear and face all challenges in life because if you don't than no one else will take your place in return.

siewyin said...

Leong Siew Yin (SA08006)
Do you believe if I said that I'm a stubburn girl, i don't like to socialise along wit people and i used to be a lazy girl last time...??
Well , time past fast with years, and all the memories I had won't fade away..
And now , look at me.. I think I has changed to becime a person who i can say listen to others opinion and accept their comments..About socialise.. I'm trying hard to join other people and go out with my friend if they call me out for a walk.. I even try to fill in my spare time with activities to get myself away from boring sitting alone in the room..and I still remember my teacher who never give up to encourage me to study hard and support me...
Now my life is more colourful.. yeah really k..
Hmm.
Another things is, last time I'm too childish as I'm don't really know what my dream is..jus a simple person..
until one day..
when I start my working life.. I learnt what is going around me..or what we called a reality world..
I learnt to protect myself, don't be too trust at a person that you do not know them well and never give up easily..
There are ups and downs in our live, and I must be tough enough to overcome the road that fill with challenges..
I hope I will change to become a better person in the future..
Advantures and experiences teach me to become a better person.

sk_cute said...

Hi friends, it happen when my grandma passed away in 2003. I be silent and like to be alone. Besides that, I don’t like to gather with any of my friends. It’s all because of I cannot accept my grandma’s death and feel like I lost something.

And that time, one of my friends, advised me. She told me to forget about the past and be friendly with everyone. She said, actually I’m not only disturbing myself but then I make other friends hurt. The way that I behave making them feels uncomfortable.

I think for a moment and realize that what I have done is wrong. I supposed cannot do like that. I should taking care my friend feelings. And since that day till now, I always told myself to maintain a good relationship with everyone. I change my attitudes. Either we sad or not, we should make them happy and don’t ever let them being uncomfortable because of us. I also learned that, if we are sad, we have to try to solve it and not to be silent or keep away from other friends.

A.SASIKALA (SA08063)

sasi88 said...

Hi everyone,
As I grew elder there is a lot of things that I encountered in my life which consists of good moments and bad moments as well. Since young I used to be a very hardworking and a very obedient daughter. But as the time passes by, as I venture into my teenage wood, I became very lazy and playful. These affected my studies badly. I was really broke down and lost my confidence at one level. That is the time I realized how a persons love and care can change an individual's mentality. Yes, it was my dad who showed me the guidance and brought me back on the right track. My father's care and love changed me. He will always advise me, motivates me whenever I feels down. His words are real magic which gave me the awareness about my future .I'm very proud and would like to be thankful to god for giving me such a lovely father. I'll always make you proud of me DAD!!

M.SASIKALA
SA08030

lostnfound said...

i miss my father so much.everything in my family life changes last year.my father was sick.he's got stroke.

2008..
i have finished my matriculation.two days i'm home,my father will sick suddenly.everything happen very fast.he cannot walk with himself.Only God knows my feeling this time.but i must control my feeling because i know my father must hurt when he looked me sad.before i entered here,i look after my father everyday for 3month.every morning and evening i will bring him walk using 'tongkat'.lot of my time is with him.

now...
my father can walk again.thanks God.although not same as before.but i'm very happy and thankful.when i'm back home i will do exercise with him every morning.i was very proud with him because he has a strong mind and heart.he never give up.he also teach me to be a responsible and independent person.until now,i still sharing my story with him.i really hope that i will do my best to make him happy especially in my field.i'm really miss his precious smile.
::nik noor asma nik wil sa08040 ::

nabil said...

Assalamualaikum…
Hmm… how about my past experience yeah…?We start at matriculation k..I was from Pahang Matriculation College just 5 or 10 minutes from UMP… hahahaaa.. Pahang again.. Poor me, but it’s ok can cut my cost.. This is my first time I stay at hostel. Early the semester I get hot fever cause of homesick. Huhuhuuu… so shame… After 2 or 3 weeks there, I had no homesick anymore. Yeaah… Then I have been selected for be volleyball player to enter the KAKOM (karnival sukan antara matrikulasi Malaysia ). For the first time I have been a captain for my team.. wow!.. unbelievable.. hmmm… So many first time at matriculation. Hahahaa… Start from that, I always busy at afternoon. After finished my class you can find me at court only. At night, I already tired. Lazy to study and do my homework. Cause of my bad attitude my pointer has been fall for the 1st semester. But, I get no 4th in KAKOM. Hihuuu…
Therefore for the next semester I realized that I should change my attitude if I want to success. In the 2nd semester I’m not play truant and lazy anymore. I’m still busy at afternoon, but you can find me at the cubic only. Hahahaa.. After finished my class I will go to cubic to meet the lecturer do some exercise and learn more. Start from that my pointer was increase. Yihuuu… Other than that, matriculation is also my the first field for me play squash and tennis. So , for the conclusion so many first time in matriculation. Hahahaaa… not laa.. My life time in matriculation change me a lot in attitude and make me very sporty women. Heheheee… That’s all.. thank you..

fatieha said...

Learn from the past. That is what I try to do now. About me at the past, since I was in primary school I had 1 bad attitude, hot temper. This attitude doesn’t change even though I already in secondary school. All of my friends realize about my bad attitude. There are some of my close friend do advise me to change my attitude cause not all can deal with my attitude. This bad habit continues until I was in matriculation. But when I sit alone in my room I think until when I want to be like this. Then from that time I decided to make a change. I need to control my anger.
Now I manage to control my anger. Even though sometime I couldn’t but I proud of myself because I manage to turn myself into a better person. I think...Hahaha…

elya khadeeja said...
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elya khadeeja said...

assalamu'alaikum.

To be honest, the hardest thing for me to do is making change. I may be judge as weak because can easily influenced but still i thinks it is fine as long as it help me to become better person.
To be specific, before this, i didn't treat my parents by the way that i should, use to object for what they have told me and refuse to do eventhough a simple thing. maybe it is true that, things will be smelly when its near but going to turn into deodrize when we get far.
As time goes by, starting my form 4, i start studying at Negeri Sembilan. First time for me of being far from my parents, first time for me to do everything by my own. Starting From this time, i start to feel something is missing, something is just not complete but slowly i have the feeling of missing my mom and dad. Which is a truly missing. This may sounds weird but this is the biggest thing that starts to change when being far from my parents. I start to learn how i need to appreciate them, start to think how they have sacrifice without asking me to pay back. Being patient with my attitude and will show me how they feel proud even though for my little achievement.
After all this time i feel grateful because at least i still have chance to be with them and looking at their tears is the last thing that i would do, because they are my everything.

Syakhsiah Bt Jaafar SA08050

~conangirlz~ said...

assalamualaikum..n morning..
hehehe..
hmm..yup..all the people have some experience that make affect their life..bad o good life..
hmmmm...i also have an experience that change my life..
my story begin from secondary school..hehe..
actually in my secondary school, all my friends are girl...becoz my school are for the girl only..so, i have more comfortable with all my girl friend..i not LESBIAN k..hehe..
then, when i in form 4, i have to move to another school n that school have boyz..this situation have change my life..becoz b4 this i only spend time n talk to the girlz(except my family k)..hehehe..n now i have to spend time n try to talk to the boyz..
for the first time, it's very hard for me...i feel like as an aliens..hehehe..that is the first step that change my life..hehe..
n now, i can accept this situation..hihi..that's a little bit that i can share here..hehe..
that's all from me right now..^_^

NURUL ATIKAH BINTI ABDUL HALIM..
SA08032..

ana said...

assalamualaikum...

Now i feel better and can accept my last experience. Now i also can breath better. it is so difficult for me to forget my bad experiences. i dont know why..and why i suppose to be like this..i just need more patience..it was happen last two years..after i got my SPM's results..i'm never worst before this..my result is not to bad but i still cannot accept it..it is because i do not get what i want..i dont like peoples control my life..maybe because of this, as a MRSM's students i can not accept the way to study at there..then, i further my studies at matrix. but i can not give more concentration because this problem still burden me..lastly, i graduate with a result that i always afraid..
but now i'm UMP's students. im try so hard to forget the past and my friends was try hard to help me..now i can forget it and start my new life..its so difficult to stand in higher place and more difficult to pretend the place..

lastly, thanks to all my friends for your kindness..

NURUL FARHANA BINTI ALIAS
SA08019

ED ong said...

Before i came to ump,i was a stubborn and lazy guy.everyday i am fooling around at school,never really pay attention on my studies.At that moment,i think that studies is not very important to me.After i get my stpm results,i really feel regret about it.i was wrong for not seriouly study during my six years.The result had cause me hard time to find a good course and good universit.Eventuallly i came to ump,in here i try so hard to control myself fopr not become the old me.i make revision of my studies ,do homework and assignment and study when i have time.This time i wiil make sure myself success.i hope that i will be able keep the effort that i been made in first semester abd bring it until the day i graduate.

Ong Foo Kheng
SA 08022

Ahyeong said...

For me, the things change me a lot is sick. while the word is bad to hear to all people. However, this is the way to let you know how it important about healthy. Most of the people they don't know how important about healthy, this is due to they does not pass the sick way.
i have a lot of experience about the sick.
Let me tell you what is the sick way i pass.
During the NS that is national servic, i need go for three month.
during the period i have a sick, the heavy sick. So unlucky, there are have medical clinic but there are no doctor in all time and the doctor won't give you antibiotic even you have a heavy sick...What kind of doctor like UMP clinic....It is same with UMP clinic here. In this heavy period, i still need eating hot, spicy food. because there are no other choice for you. i bath in freezing water even i'm fever. that's call sick way..
nowaday, most of children have monther care during thier sick and they won't suffer such way. so they can't realise that the important of healthy.....
But for me i know.....i know about it. so, i try my best to avoid it happen to me again. i go to doing gym, exercise, swimming and others to improve my immunity body. because i know the healthy is so important....

cva said...

My journey of studies is very complicated and a tragedy. Let me share about my primary school experience. Actually I was not a bright student and I was not a hard working person’s neither, always playful and never listen parents advices. Thus, I end up in the last class in school every year. After I entered secondary school I was influenced by some bad friends. Hence my attitudes became much worse. As my life was going on, there was a turning point in my life when I was in form three. Which is I meet a teacher who is changed my life. He was very strict with my studies and took care of me. Eventually, I entered university. I’m very thankful to him.
siva kumar (SA08008)

~hidayah~ said...

My life before i entered university was quite depress. Before i further my studies to University Malaysia Pahang,i was in Malacca Matriculation College.
As we know,matriculation is a place where the process of study is really fast because it's only take one year to finish our study.
And as a result i have to be a quick learner because the time table was really pack. Unfortunately,my result was not so good although i have been working very hard..I was really sad on that time.And than i start to realised the reason why i can't get a good result..Maybe i was too stress about my studies until i did'nt have no time to enjoy.But i still accept all that because it make me stronger and near to Allah.
Now,i'm thankful because i get a chance to further my studies to higher stage in UMP.I'm so glad that i have a cheerful class and making new friends here.Alhamdulillah,my result was better than in matrics and I hope i'll be a better person to god,my parent and all my friends..
That's all..thank you..

Dyana said...

Actually, i had forget my life at matriculation. I just bring a piece of happiness and knowledge to help me survive in UMP. But, when you asked about my experience, its come again freshly in my mind.

I hate my life at matriculation. I use to be a silence person, like to be alone, and never hanging out with others except my roommates. I never spoke to the boys face to face. I become an inactive and weak person at matriculation. Can you imagine you are in same group MUET with your enemy? Its make me feel so depressed. She made me cried every night after the group discussion. She gave me no chance to even talk in the discussion. When i was in matriculation, i always hope that the time will go faster. My first semester result really makes me down. But, i never give up and tried to up my pointer in second semester. I was thankful with my second semester result even though its still below 3 pointer.

Now, all my life at matriculation just gone. I live with new spirit and hope at UMP. I am glad because i got the same university with my best friend even though we are not in the same course. She make me forget all the problems. Here, i've learn how to be an active person, friends with everyone, and be an open minded person. I just found the person that teaches me how to enjoy every minute of my life and make me more appreciate myself. I had promised myself to be strong in whatever happen..

NUR DIYANA BT MOHD SAMSUDDIN
SA08041

NuriZZuddiN (NObit) said...

Before i comment this post..
i go through all my friend that had post their comment here..

there`s a lot to tell about the problems that we had to solve and the abstacle that we had to go through as a human being..

just one thing that i want to share that the problem that i face here in UMP..

its very difficlut for me to have the strenght to study alone..

especially in my room, that because i feel so lazy to study..

there a lots of metarial or notes on my dest..

but it never attract me to study and do some revision.. i still can`t overcome my lazy attitude..

i dunno what to do now..
I think from now on, i will try to study in my room..

i hope i will be able keep the spirit so i can focus on my study very well.. =)

Happy GO Lucky.. thats All.. TQ..

NURIZZUDDIN BIN AHMAD HUSSIN
SA08009

nesh burn said...

hi there miss intan..i have a opinion which is 'everyone is not the same at everytime'..it means life changes people constantly through incidents..i used to be very naive when i was in high school..i would help other more than i help myself..in other word i put others infront me..so i got many friends because of my kindness..but what i didn't know was i had too much of unwanted friends..some of them were backstabbers,some of them brouhgt me to the bad ways, as i was too naive..eventually i found out all their bad doings towards me and left them..i took this as an experiance an i'm more selective to whom i would be friend with..plus i not used to be very helpfull or kind or naive before..

mita said...

Good day all...
About my past experience...
I'm actually not so much changed from today to the past. I've been always cool and naughty sometimes. I won't take everything as a serious problem. Because, there will be somewhere someone facing even more bigger problems than me for sure. I always like to do things enjoyable. I love to stick out with friends..
I will always think positive and hopefully all of us will also think in that way.
that's all from me. bye all..